It would be fantastic if your significant other came with an instruction manual. That way, you’ve had a clearer idea about what it takes to keep them smiling. That, of course, assumes that you’d taken the time to physically read it. There is, however, this handy guide put forth by Ask Men with five steps to please your lady in the bedroom. Now, none of this will help you when it comes to doing the dishes or housework properly, how to shut up at the correct time, and when it’s appropriate to fix a problem or just realize that she’s not looking for you to fix it…but just listen to her bitch about it.
Anyway, here are the five things they say you can do that’ll satisfy her every time:
- Her Pleasure – Take an interest in it. Showing that you care about what makes her smile, feel good, and gets her off is a huge first step. Show that you’re willing to “give” just as much, if not more, than just “receive”
- Slow Down – It’s a marathon, not a sprint. Be patient and give her time to “get there” with you. A warm-up period is essential, and…not that you want to set a timer…but a 20-minute pre-game foreplay period is a good rule of thumb
- Questions – Don’t be afraid to ask questions and find out what she likes. More importantly, once she shares her desires with you…act on it and enjoy it. Showing interest and learning will be a huge turn-on
- Don’t Try Stuff She Hasn’t Agreed On – Just because it looked cool in a porn video you watched doesn’t mean she’ll want it sprung on her like a surprise she’s all of a sudden expected to be thrilled about and enjoy. You might end up shocked, disappointed, and embarrassed when she doesn’t enjoy it, she’s completely turned off by it, and it kills the mood entirely. Enthusiastic consent makes everything better and more comfortable
- The Power Of The Clitoris – There are more than 10K nerve endings there just waiting to be attended to. In comparison, your one-eyed wonder worm has around 4K. Knowing your way around that little love button can go a long way, and don’t be afraid to ask for guidance…you’ll both be glad you did
Source: Ask Men
